I like Paw Paw's ideas on gifts for his children!
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Money, honey, money and let me pick out my own gift or put it towards a bigger gift or put it in the bank.
I did not run out get my husband a 'gift' for his recent birthday or Christmas this year. I used to give him a AAA membership.
I told him that his gift was a garage door opener for the new small home that I am building. I think that he will use it! He never had a garage opener before. I had one a couple of years after my late husband and I built our home back east in the 70's. I did not really want one, I thought that it was a WASTE of money at the time, but after dealing with one blizzard after another and leaving/coming home in the dark - security reasons... I really appreciated the openers!
I would go for the money gift if I were you.
There are a lot of good ideas on here too... many that I have used and still use.
Catherine